The ten questions you need to be able to answer to know if you’re in a healthy relationship

Relationship therapist: The ten questions you need to be able to answer about your partner to know whether you’re in a healthy relationship

  • A relationship therapist shared 10 questions all couples should be able to answer
  • Lauren Consul, from California, is a popular marriage and family therapist 
  • The questions include casual habits, intimate preferences, and big stressors

A marriage and family therapist has shared a list of ten questions you need to be able to answer about your partner to know whether you’re in a healthy relationship.

The questions include how they like their eggs cooked and how many times they would like to be having sex each week. 

Lauren Consul, from California, is best known for sharing professional relationship advice on TikTok, and her latest video details the important information every couple needs to know about their other half.

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Lauren Consul [pictured], from California, is best known for sharing professional relationship advice on TikTok

Lauren Consul [pictured], from California, is best known for sharing professional relationship advice on TikTok

‘If you can answer the majority of these questions about your partner, you’re doing something right in your relationship,’ Lauren said.

She added, ‘It means you’re paying attention to not just the big things – but also the small things – and you’re making them important and internalising them.’

The questions can fit into four major categories: everyday routine, personal preferences, intimate issues, and trying times.

Everyday routine

Do you know how your partner likes their eggs cooked?

Poll

How many can you answer?

  • 0-3 122 votes
  • 4-6 220 votes
  • 7-10 1200 votes

Do they like the toilet paper over or under?

Personal preferences 

What would they consider to be a big purchase?

If you were to arrive at a bar before your partner, what would they want you to order for them?

What was their dream job when they were in elementary school? 

Intimate issues

How do they like you to flirt with them? 

How frequently would they ideally like to be having sex?

A therapist has just revealed a list of ten questions you need to be able to answer about your partner

The questions range from small everyday quirks and personal habits to all-consuming life problems

A marriage and family therapist has just revealed a list of ten questions you need to be able to answer about your partner to know if you’re in a healthy relationship

Trying times 

What is something that they’re very self conscious about? 

What is the biggest tell that they are stressed out?

What is one of the biggest stressors in their life right now?

10 questions you need to be able to answer about your partner 

  1. Do you know how your partner likes their eggs cooked?
  2. What would they consider to be a big purchase?
  3. What was their dream job when they were in elementary school?
  4. If you were to arrive at a bar before your partner, what would they want you to order for them?
  5. How frequently would they ideally like to be having sex?
  6. What is something that they’re very self conscious about? 
  7. Do they like the toilet paper over or under?
  8. What is the biggest tell that they are stressed out?
  9. How do they like you to flirt with them?
  10. What is one of the biggest stressors in their life right now?

 

Many immediately sent the video to their partners in the hopes that they could answer the questions.

‘I sent this to my boyfriend and he got seven right!’ one woman wrote. ‘I’m so proud.’

‘I’m almost too worried to answer these seriously,’ said another. ‘I barely know these things about myself’.

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